Balance Between Wife and Mother

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Throughout Hazrat Qari Siddeeq Ahmad Baandwi’s (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) married life he practiced on the aayah “Be good towards your spouses”. Hailing from a wealthy family and being the daughter of a wealthy man, his wife was accustomed to luxury and comfort. Qari Siddeeq Saheb (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) therefore made an effort to see to her ease and well-being. Initially, Qari Siddeeq Saheb’s (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) wife would fall ill very often. He would worry about her treatment and would make a concerted effort to see to her by taking her to many places. 

When Qari Siddeeq Saheb (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) was staying in Fatehpur, his wife would stay with him whilst his mother remained in Hatora. From time to time Qari Siddeeq Saheb (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) would visit his mother and serve her. Qari Siddeeq Saheb (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) never neglected his mother whilst looking after and seeing to his wife. He never said anything to her that would upset her. He never gave his mother a stiff look and never back answered her. In the same vein, he never spoke in an improper manner to his wife because of his mother. He always worked with softness, politeness, understanding, patience and tolerance. (Hayaat-e-Siddeeq, pg. 137)

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