Advice to Wives - Part 1

Wednesday, 16 May 2012 08:18

2. Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said: “The woman who passes away in such a state that her husband is happy with her will enter Jannah” (Tirmizi #1161).

3. Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) also said: “If I were to command any person to prostrate to anyone besides Allah Ta’ala, I would have commanded the woman to prostrate to her husband. If the husband orders the wife to carry the boulders of one mountain to the next and then to a third, she should do so” (Ibnu Maajah #1852).

Obedience:

1. Obey your husband in all permissible matters. This will draw the mercy of Allah Ta’ala. Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said: “After the Taqwa (fear) of Allah Ta’ala, there is no favour that a believer may enjoy better than a pious wife. If he instructs her she obeys him, if he looks towards her, she brings delight to him, if he takes an oath for her to do something she carries it out and if he is away from her (on a journey, etc.) she acts in good faith regarding her personal self and his wealth” (Ibnu Maajah #1857).

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Signs of Qiyaamah - Part 4

Wednesday, 16 May 2012 07:15

Childs response to the injustice of the parent / Showing respect due to fear of harm / Harms of music. 

Date: 2012-05-15

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Signs of Qiyaamah Part 3 (Service to Parents)

Wednesday, 09 May 2012 08:18

Ladies Tarbiyat Programme of Hazrat Moulana Ilyas Patel

Date: 2012-05-08

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Advice to Husbands - Part 1

Wednesday, 16 May 2012 07:56

Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said, "The best amongst you are those who are best towards their wives, and I am the best to my wives" (Tirmizi #4651).

Entering and leaving the home:

1. When leaving home in the morning, make a point of kissing your wife and don't leave without salaam. (NB: Any act of intimacy, no matter how small, must NEVER be done in the presence of children, even if they are not of a discerning age.)
2. When entering the home, always make salaam cheerfully, no matter how difficult your day may have been. Salaam is a means of engendering great love and happiness in the home. Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) advised Anas (radiyallahu anhu) thus: “Oh my son! When you enter your home, make salaam to your family. It will be a means of blessings for you and for them” (Tirmizi #2698).

Read more: Advice to Husbands - Part 1