{"id":14805,"date":"2016-12-08T04:44:01","date_gmt":"2016-12-08T04:44:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/new\/?p=14805"},"modified":"2025-07-28T09:29:55","modified_gmt":"2025-07-28T07:29:55","slug":"assisting-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/?p=14805","title":{"rendered":"Assisting Others"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Hazrat Qari Siddeeq Ahmad Baandwi (rahmatullahi \u2018alaih) mentioned regarding the people of his village, \u201cIt was a very excellent era. It was common for everyone to help and assist others. Everyone lived like brothers. They would all help and assist one another. Everyone would take part in each other\u2019s happiness, sadness, weddings, functions, etc. Some servants of Allah Ta\u2018ala have made it their work to assist those in need.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Qari Saheb (rahmatullahi \u2018alaih) once mentioned the following incident regarding one of the pious people from his family:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201cHe used to help everyone in purchasing their necessities. He would go to the bazaar with those who were needy and purchase their items for them. People used to come to him and express their needs. He would make an appointment with them and ensure that he would help them out. Some poor non-Muslims would also come to him and say, \u2018My daughter is getting married. I have to purchase the jehez<a title=\"\" href=\"file:\/\/publications-pc\/Publications\/Al-Haadi\/Website\/Akaabir%20Articles\/Hayaat-e-Siddeeq\/Ml.%20Paruk\/Assisting%20Others.docx#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container hundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-overflow:visible;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"width:calc( 100% + 0px ) !important;max-width:calc( 100% + 0px ) !important;margin-left: calc(-0px \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-0px \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column fusion-flex-align-self-flex-start fusion-column-no-min-height\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:0px;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:0px;--awb-spacing-left-medium:0px;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:0px;--awb-spacing-left-small:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\">[1]<\/a>. Come with me to buy it.\u2019 He would even go with them to render his assistance. In this manner he would try and help everyone. The morning that he passed away, some people had come to his house since he had given them an appointment to take them to Baanda to buy their things. These poor people went back crying in grief for this great loss.\u201d (<a href=\"https:\/\/talimiboardkzn.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Hayaat-e-siddeeq.pdf\">Hayaat-e-Siddeeq, pg. 42<\/a>)<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<hr align=\"left\" size=\"1\" width=\"33%\" \/>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a title=\"\" href=\"file:\/\/publications-pc\/Publications\/Al-Haadi\/Website\/Akaabir%20Articles\/Hayaat-e-Siddeeq\/Ml.%20Paruk\/Assisting%20Others.docx#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> According to the custom in India, the bride\u2019s father has to give the groom a large amount of gifts before he accepts the bride in his home.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>  [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14806,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lessons-from-the-lives-of-the-pious"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14805"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14805\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21738,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14805\/revisions\/21738"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14806"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14805"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}