{"id":15320,"date":"2017-07-03T06:12:10","date_gmt":"2017-07-03T06:12:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/new\/?p=15320"},"modified":"2018-02-05T05:05:31","modified_gmt":"2018-02-05T05:05:31","slug":"blinded-by-the-log","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/?p=15320","title":{"rendered":"Blinded by the Log"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>(Tie the Tongue Series \u2013 Part One)<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Associating and interacting with people is a basic need of human nature. When meeting and interacting with people, the chosen method of communication is normally that of speech. However, what is the topic that we choose to discuss? Some may discuss the news and political landscape, others may discuss the latest sport results, while mothers may discuss children issues, recipes or even the latest fashions and trends.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Whatever the topic may be, in many instances the conversation eventually drifts to a person being discussed. Thereafter, depending on the nature of the personality, his praises may either be sung or his \u2018laundry may be hung out to dry\u2019 with all and sundry free to spectate and participate in the backbiting \u2018feast\u2019.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The severity of the sin of gheebah lies in a few aspects; the backbiter will not be forgiven unless he secures the forgiveness of the one who was the victim of his gheebah (backbiting). If he fails to secure his forgiveness in this world, he will be made to recompense him by giving him his good deeds or bearing his evil deeds in the Hereafter. Another aspect is that all those who happily spectate, even though they do not actively participate, are party to the sin. Also,\u00a0<strong>most people who indulge in gheebah do not regard their action as a sin<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Often, when the person backbiting is told that he is indulging in gheebah (backbiting), he replies, \u201cBut the person really does have these faults!\u201d In this regard, it is imperative for us to understand that gheebah is for us to say something about another person or even indicate or gesture (e.g. a gesture showing that he is fat, short, etc.) that is\u00a0<strong>true<\/strong>, but is such that if he knew about it, he would not like it. In the case where the statement made is\u00a0<strong>not<\/strong>\u00a0true, then the statement was not gheebah but was rather buhtaan (slander) which is even worse!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Tying one\u2019s tongue and abstaining from gheebah is vital at all times \u2013 but more so in the month of Ramadhaan as gheebah has the potential to rob one of all the benefits and rewards of his fast. Hence, Abu Hurairah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) once said, \u201cFasting is a shield, provided that one does not tear it.\u201d Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) was then asked, \u201cHow does one tear the shield?\u201d Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) replied, \u201cBy lying or indulging in gheebah (backbiting).\u201d (Tabraani &#8211; Majma\u2018uz Zawaaid #5012)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Hence, the next time gheebah takes place, let us either put a stop to it, or if we are unable to do that, excuse ourselves and leave so that we do not become implicated. Furthermore, if we ever feel the impulse to indulge in gheebah, then let us ponder over this statement of Abu Hurairah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhu): \u201cYou take note of the speck in the eye of your brother, yet forget the log in your own eye!\u201d (Kitaabus Samt wa Aadaabil Lisaan #195)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>  [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":15321,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15320","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15320","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15320"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15320\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15322,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15320\/revisions\/15322"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15321"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15320"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15320"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15320"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}