{"id":17111,"date":"2018-04-28T06:04:38","date_gmt":"2018-04-28T06:04:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/new\/?p=17111"},"modified":"2018-04-28T06:04:38","modified_gmt":"2018-04-28T06:04:38","slug":"dealing-with-those-against-whom-we-have-ill-thoughts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/?p=17111","title":{"rendered":"Dealing with those against whom we have ill-thoughts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(Correspondence of Hazrat Mufti Mahmood Hasan Gangohi rahimahullah)<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Letter:<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0\u00a0Eventhough I meet others with good character, there are those who intentionally treat me and my family unjustly, without any valid reason. I cannot understand why it is happening and this is causing me much grief. Please advise.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Reply:<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0If people oppose us for no reason due to which we begin to have ill-feelings towards them, combat these feelings by treating the same people with good conduct.<\/p>\n<p>When we meet them we should greet them with Salaam, shake their hands, enquire about their health, give them dua\u2019s and occasionally present them a gift. Make dua that Allah Ta\u2019ala keeps us in good health and protect us from all evil. Insha-Allah, Allah Ta\u2019ala will create love in their hearts and remove all enmity. Allah Ta\u2019ala alone controls and changes hearts.<em>\u00a0(Maktoobaat vol 5 pg 61)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>  [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17112,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maktoobaat-correspondence"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17111"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17111\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17113,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17111\/revisions\/17113"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/17112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alhaadi.org.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}