A youngster from Lohari once came to Hazrat Moulana Maseehullah Khan Saaheb (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) and said: “Hazrat, I am going to Gangoh to fetch my wife.” Hazratjee (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) replied: “Yes, by all means you may go but please make sure you treat her with love and affection no matter how bitter she is towards you.” When the youngster heard this, he said, “Hazrat, I won’t tell her anything. I’ll just keep quiet.” Hazrat said: “No, no. If she has to swear you, then too regard her swearing to be a bouquet of flowers. You will see how well things will work out for you.” (Hazrat Moulana Maseehullah Khan Saaheb [rahmatullahi ‘alaih] – A Brief Biography, pg. 210)